Traveling is more meaningful when you connect with local LGBTQ+ communities. Here's how to find your people wherever you go.
Before You Arrive
- Join Facebook groups for LGBTQ+ people in your destination
- Follow local LGBTQ+ accounts on Instagram
- Check if there are expat LGBTQ+ groups
- Look up Pride dates and community events
Apps and Websites
- Dating apps: Beyond hookups – ask for local recommendations
- GayCities: Community-driven guides to destinations
- Meetup: LGBTQ+ social groups in many cities
- Couchsurfing: Hangouts with local hosts
Finding Physical Spaces
- LGBTQ+ centers: Many cities have community centers with events
- Gay bars and cafés: Still the most reliable meeting points
- Bookstores: Often host readings and community events
- Sports groups: Frontrunners, gay sports leagues
- Religious groups: Affirming congregations in many faiths
Making Connections
- Arrive at events early when it's easier to chat
- Ask bartenders for recommendations – they know everyone
- Be open about being a visitor – locals often love showing their city
- Offer to buy someone a drink as a thank-you for tips
Giving Back
Consider volunteering at local organizations, attending fundraisers, or simply supporting local LGBTQ+ businesses. You'll meet people and contribute positively.
Remember: The LGBTQ+ community is worldwide. No matter where you go, there are people who share your experience and will welcome you.